In the enchanting journey towards your special day, navigating the wedding do’s and don’ts and myriad of planning details can be as exhilarating as it is overwhelming.
To ensure your celebration unfolds seamlessly, we’ve gathered insights from seasoned wedding planner, Cleo Alexiou, who has orchestrated countless love-filled affairs. From the essential dos to the critical don’ts, let their expertise guide you towards crafting the wedding of your dreams.
Join Cleo as she unravels her top ten wedding do’s and don’ts that will shape your wedding into an unforgettable masterpiece of love and celebration.
DO Set Your Priorities
Begin your wedding planning journey by identifying your priorities as a couple. Work out what your non-negotiables are, whether it’s a 12-piece show band for the party or a painter, and then work back. This starting point will also feed into how to best distribute your budget.
DO Build A Dream Team
Surround yourself with a handpicked team of suppliers who align with both your aesthetic and ethos as a couple. From florists to photographers, each person should share your vision, and possess the expertise to bring it to life as you picture it.
DO Embrace Personalisation
This doesn’t just have to be personalised napkins and on the day stationery (although those are always gorgeous). Think about what defines you as a couple. Your guests should walk in and know that this is undeniably your wedding— from bespoke vows to curated playlists, let every detail speak to your journey as a couple, and create cherished memories for the years to come.
DO Trust Your Planner
Wedding planning should be a collaborative experience, but trusting your planner is a game-changer and the key to a stress free prep journey. Keep in mind their expertise, listen to their suggestions, and follow their lead. You are their priority as they work hard to bring your dreams to reality.
DO Enjoy The Process
It’s far too easy to allow the stress of things to take over the beauty of what you are actually planning. Organisation is the real winner here, as it will allow you to calmly tick off your to do’s. Try to aim to have everything signed off at least 1 month prior, so you can enter your wedding month as cool as a cucumber.
DON’T Overlook The Budget
Resist the allure of extravagant splurges that may strain your financial resources. Instead, approach budgeting with pragmatism and foresight, allocating funds to areas that hold the greatest significance to you as a couple. Create a budget sheet, and refer back to it often. Budget should be at the forefront of your mind during the entire process to avoid any unexpected stress.
DON’T Neglect Communication
Clear and consistent communication is the cornerstone of successful wedding planning. Allocating time with your suppliers to catch up and talk through your vision is always a positive exercise.
DON’T Underestimate The Power Of Rest
In order to enjoy this journey, you must look after number one! Exhaustion tends to lead to careless decision making which in time will trickle into larger elements of your plans. Maintaining clarity and focus, along with a realistic timeline, will set the stage for a smooth planning journey and ensure you’re at your best from the start of planning to your wedding day celebrations.
DON’T Ignore Contract Details
Always review and understand the terms outlined in contracts with suppliers and your wedding planner. Ignoring contract details can lead to misunderstandings or unexpected costs down the line.
DON’T Underestimate The Value Of A Wedding Planner
Recognise and appreciate the expertise and value your wedding planner brings to the table. Their professional guidance can save you time, money, and stress while ensuring your wedding day exceeds your expectations. Trusting their recommendations, wedding do’s and don’ts, and insights can lead to a more memorable and enjoyable wedding experience.
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